Binding: Hardcover
Description: There's a type of person out there who is better at helping others than they are at looking after themselves. Maybe you re one of them. Maybe you know someone who is. They are the backbone of the caring professions giving strength to our schools clinics care homes and hospitals. But you will also find them in offices gyms community groups and charities everywhere you look. There's usually one in every family. But these people who do so much to help others are struggling. In their efforts to help wherever they can they typically overstretch themselves. Some face traumatic and distressing situations. Those in long - term caring relationships have no time to care for themselves. Those who are professional carers work prolonged hours with inadequate resources. Deeper down beneath all of this there is something else that causes helpers to suffer. It lurks unnoticed. It dwells in the psychology of the helper. Where people feel compelled to help others and don t look after their own needs that's the Super - Helper Syndrome. Until recently this phenomenon has gone unnoticed and unnamed but it has now been highlighted by chartered psychologists Jess Baker and Rod Vincent. * The Super - Helper Syndrome* offers a new perspective on the psychology of helping. It sets out how helping works and why it sometimes goes wrong. It brings to life psychological and neuroscientific research to explain the roots of compassion and empathy. It goes deep into the belief system of helpers and reveals what really motivates them. It illustrates all this with excerpts from a broad spectrum of interviews with paid and unpaid helpers from ICU nurses to lawyers volunteers to live - in carers. The book provides activities for the reader to profile and analyse their own helping relationships. It offers support for people who want to adopt a Healthy Helper Mindset including meeting their own needs building assertiveness and setting helping boundaries. It guides the reader towards countering the inner critic with mindful self - compassion. It's only by doing these things that compassionate people can be most effective at helping others. This book is for anyone who helps to the detriment of their own wellbeing. It's for anyone who wants to support the helpers in their life: colleagues employees family members or friends. And it's for anyone who wants to understand how helping works and to be better at it. It has been written because it's vital to improve the lives of those who improve the lives of others.
Title: The Super - Helper Syndrome A Survival Guide For Compassionate People
Author(s): Vincent Rod
Publisher: The History Press Ltd
Barcode: 9780750998864
Pages: 256 Pages
Publication Date: 6/6/2023
Category: Self-Help & Personal Development